The road to your destiny will be filled with bumps, pot holes, road blocks, unexpected turns and sudden stops. Your personal belief and confidence in yourself will always come to the surface in the waters of pressure, obstacles, and challenges.

Confidence is the defining difference between the common and the uncommon person.
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When you change your feelings, you will change your actions and behavior. Your behavior is tied to your feelings. Most people want to change but they cannot get past their emotions or feelings. Your E-motions are what sets things “IN-motion.” If you do not feel confident, you will not act confident. If you do not feel like a success in life, you will not act like a success in life. Here are six facts that I have learned that you can use to change your actions by changing your thinking:

Fact # 1 – You will have both positive and negative thoughts.
Fact # 2 – You can control your thoughts.
Fact # 3 – Your feelings come from your thoughts or beliefs.
Fact # 4 – You can control your feelings by taking control of your thoughts.
Fact # 5 – You can change your behavior by changing your feelings.
Fact # 6 – When you change your behavior, you change your future.

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Confidence is a thinking process that starts in your mind.  Fears, insecurities, stresses, and feelings of depression are also emotions that have been created by your thought processes.  All of these emotions start as a thinking process that you allow to flow like a river in your mind.  You can make a decision as to which process of thinking you are going to allow to flow in your mind.  You can allow the process of confident thinking to flow or you can allow the floods of fear to flow.  You have a right to choose which process you are going to allow to flow in your own mind.

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Increasing your personal level of confidence will empower you to believe in other people.  Your confidence in God and in yourself will produce confidence in other people.  It is difficult for those who do not have confidence in themselves to have much confidence in others.  Placing confidence in other people is a very important leg on your triangle of success.  Why?  Because you will only accomplish a fraction of your potential working alone.  If you do everything alone and never partner with other people, you will create barriers to unleashing your full potential.

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Happy New Year!  As we get ready to celebrate the New Year, let me ask you these questions- What are you doing to prepare for the New Year at work?  Are you preparing to meet your goals?  Are you preparing to be a champion?  The desire to win, to be successful, or to do something great in life is not enough.  The will to prepare to win is the most important thing.  Champions are not just born.  Champions are made in the process of preparation.

Preparation is the difference between winning and losing.  You are already preparing, whether you know it or not.  The question is, for what?  To win or just to finish?  Success or failure?

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The five confidence destroying fears that you will face at work on the road to success are:

1) Fear of success
2) Fear of failure
3) Fear of rejection
4) Fear of taking a risk
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Developing your confidence at work will not happen overnight. However, when you decide to deal with your personal insecurities you will be amazed at the difference it will make in your life. I recommend that you start by reading this book several times. Continue reading

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Everything starts as a dream. I believe every person comes into the earth with dream seeds of destiny inside of them and the dream for an exciting future. However, many people allow the dreams of their future to be dashed against the rocks of disappointment, despair, discouragement, and the daily routine of just trying to make a living instead of building an exciting life. The majority of the people in this world have let go of their dreams and have lost the winner’s edge. They have traded their dream for an 8-5 job. A “J.O.B.” will keep you – Just Over Broke. Statistics show that a majority of people are working at jobs they hate. Why? Because they do not have the confidence to pursue the dream in their heart for what they really want to do in life. Most people are living a miserable life because they are caught between a dream and a job. Continue reading

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At work many people use the mask of confidence to climb the ladder of success only to find out that the higher they climb up the ladder, the more of their “behind” shows. The higher a person climbs in a place of leadership, the greater numbers of insecurities are revealed. Why? Continue reading

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Are you catching on yet? By changing your attitude at work, you can stop these negative forces from crushing your self-confidence. You don’t have to live a handicapped life! Continue reading

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